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Friday, April 5, 2019

# 438 Be Graceful To Loved Ones Last Wishes


The Book of Genesis

Day 438



Ge 47:28 And Jacob lived in the land of Egypt seventeen years. So the length of Jacob's life was one hundred and forty-seven years.  29 When the time drew near that Israel must die, he called his son Joseph and said to him, "Now if I have found favor in your sight, please put your hand under my thigh, and deal kindly and truly with me. Please do not bury me in Egypt,  30 "but let me lie with my fathers; you shall carry me out of Egypt and bury me in their burial place." And he said, "I will do as you have said."  31 Then he said, "Swear to me." And he swore to him. So Israel bowed himself on the head of the bed.

By our culture’s standards, this method of oath taking would be called “awkward” at best. But we have seen this kind of oath taking before in the book of Genesis. (24:2-9) When you think about it, this kind of oath taking makes perfect sense since children are called the fruit of the loins or thighs, a hand placed on that part of the body was a charge to posterity to carry out the terms of the oath. Jacob was getting a guarantee from Joseph that he would be buried in the land of his fathers, and that oath was carried out years later by Jacob’s posterity.

I am always amazed at the apparent fascination of people with burying places. Throughout history, we read of elaborate burials. Archaeologists still dig up old burial sites for clues of ancient civilizations. Even today, we insist on being buried in family plots, side by side with loved ones, or we may even look for cemeteries with scenic views and locations.  Many churches have cemeteries located on their land, perhaps serving as a reminder that believers are all in one family.

On one hand, this preoccupation with burial  seems kind of silly to me. What difference does it make where you are buried? You’re dead! The real question is, were you alive in Christ before you went under the sod?

1Th 4:16 ,17 tells us what will happen when the Lord returns:  “For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of an archangel, and with the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first.  17 Then we who are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And thus we shall always be with the Lord.”

Burial locations weren’t exactly high on the list of Jesus’ priorities either! When responding to a man who wanted to delay following Him while he buried his father, He said to the man, “Follow Me, and let the dead bury their own dead." (Mt 8:22)

Having said that, remember to not make it an issue. Burial is very important to some people. That burial plot is a tangible connection to someone important in their life. Honor that! A little grace can go a long way when the matter of burial comes up. Joseph honored his father’s request and gave him comfort while he was still alive and able to receive it. Should we not do the same for our loved ones?

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