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Friday, October 12, 2018

# 317 Looking For Love In All the Wrong Places


The Book of Genesis

Day 317


Ge 34:1 Now Dinah the daughter of Leah, whom she had borne to Jacob, went out to see the daughters of the land.

Dinah, the daughter of Leah, decides to hang out with the daughters of the land. As any person, young or old desires to be loved and accepted by their peers, so it is with Dinah. Often, in our society today, our young people grow up without the influence of a father in a home, and family psychologists tell us of the importance of fathers expressing their love for their daughters, lest their daughters seek it elsewhere in ill-advised relationships.

This quest for love and acceptance often shows up in the sexual sins of fornication and homosexuality, which more often than not is acceptable behavior amongst the “daughters of the land.”  The only hope for deliverance from these types of sins is found in Jesus Christ. Only Jesus can overcome the lack of love and acceptance in our lives through His unconditional love and acceptance of us poor sinners! Only Jesus can pull us out of our sinful lifestyles, into a lifestyle of following Him.

1Co 6:9-11 says, “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites,  10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.  11 And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God.”

“Such were some of you!” But you don’t have to be identified by those sins anymore, as you trust in Jesus!

I don’t mean to put parents on a guilt trip in this matter, but I do think it is important to remind us often of how important love and acceptance is to our children and they need to be consistently affirmed early on!

Don’t miss the mention of the fact that Dinah was Leah’s daughter. Leah desperately desired love and acceptance from her husband and she thought the only way she could get it was by producing male offspring. Is it any wonder then that Dinah started hanging out with the wrong crowd looking for love and acceptance in the wrong places? She likely wasn’t getting it in her dysfunctional family!

Now parents, do not despair. It is never too late to start loving your children properly. If you’ve blown it in the past, confess it to God, invite Him into your situation, and be willing to be changed by Him in a way that will attract your children to the Light of the Lord! And as your children are attracted to the Light of the Lord, the things of this world will become,  as the song says, “strangely dim.”

Turn your eyes upon Jesus,
Look full in His wonderful face,
And the things of earth will grow strangely dim,
In the light of His glory and grace.

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