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Thursday, September 25, 2025

Playing the Deadly Game of House

 

Good day! I’m Duane Matz and this is Today’s Living Word.

 

Job 15:12 Why does your heart carry you away, And what do your eyes wink at,

Job’s friend (Eliphaz) asks what I consider to be a couple of challenging questions for professing Christians!

 

We talked about question # 1 last time concerning the matter of letting our emotions pave the way for our actions rather than the Word of God.

Today, let’s look at question # 2.

 

 “What do your eyes wink at? In other words,  what sins do you take lightly?” For that matter, “what sins are winked at by the church?”

 

The sin of fornication is certainly one of them that is near the top. We take fornicationt” to mean moving in and having sex before marriage, we use to call it “living in sin,” another term is cohabitation. Whatever you want to call it, it is sin, and it needs to be dealt with!

 

 Cohabitation is a deadly game of playing house before marriage. And while some will say, that cohabitation is a way to prepare for marriage, the statistics say something else. The divorce rate is actually higher among those who “play at house,” than those who stick to God’s plan  for marriage.

 

Fornication is one of the sins that disqualify one from the kingdom of God! It is a spiritual truth, that cannot be winked away!

 

 

1Co 6:9 Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites,

 10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.

 

That is nothing to  wink at! God has a three word command for fornicators: 1Co 6:18 “Flee sexual immorality.”

 

Stop playing house with the world’s rules  and start playing it with God’s rules. Never forget that Jesus is not only your Savior, but He is also your Lord,

 

And look at the verse 11 in 1 Corinthians six!

 

 11 And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God.

 

Such WERE some of you! Past tense! You were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified by your new found God-granted faith in Jesus!

 

No longer a slave to these sins, you now have a new identity it is Christian, a follower of King Jesus.

 

Should we just continue playing house because of God’s abundant grace!

 

Ro 6:1 What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound?

 2 Certainly not! How shall we who died to sin live any longer in it?

Case closed!

 

To quote an old Christian song, “God will make a way when there seems to be no way.  

 

I’m Duane Matz and that’s Today’s Living Word

 

 

Friday, September 5, 2025

When Emotions Trump God's Word

 

Good day! I’m Duane Matz and this is Today’s Living Word.

 

Job 15:12 Why does your heart carry you away, And what do your eyes wink at,

Job’s friend (Eliphaz) asks what I consider to be a couple of challenging questions for professing Christians!

 

Question #1: Why does your heart carry you away? In other words, “Why do you let your emotions trump God’s Word.

 

Question # 2: “What do your eyes wink at? In other words,  what sins do you take lightly?” For that matter, “what sins are winked at by the church?”

 

Let’s start with the first question, “why does your heart carry you away? Easy answer Jer 17:9 "The heart is deceitful above all things, And desperately wicked; Who can know it?

Don’t trust your heart for anything in life! Always run it through the Word of God!

 

The young business man was on a flight and found himself sitting next to a pretty young woman. They struck up a conversation and both hit it off!  They clicked. And even before the plane landed the young man already knew he would start divorce proceedings and leave his wife and kids behind. He said, “It Feels so right.”

 

Oh that he would understand that the grass that appears to be greener on the other side of the fence is really nothing but the silage of the devil! And it sours everyone and every thing.  God HATES DIVORCE!

 

As I was preparing this message, I went on the internet to find the old Barbara Mandel song, “If Loving You Is Wrong, I Don’t Wanna Be Right.” This song (just as the title suggests) served as an invitation to promiscuity.

 

What I found extremely interesting, is that it was written for a group called, (Are you ready for this?)…The Emotions.

 

You just can’t make this stuff up.

 

You can’t make this up either! According to 1 Cor 6:9 adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of God!

So is there any hope for this young business man?

 

Of course there is, . Just like there is hope for you and me. Jesus paid for all our sins. He wants us to repent and believe the Gospel.

 

Emotions are a gift from God, express them! Welcome godly sorrow over your sin! It’s a gift that will push you toward saving Faith in Jesus.

I’m Duane Matz and that’s Today’s Living Word.