Good day! I’m Duane Matz and this is
Today’s Living Word.
In Ezra chapter 10, we
have a large contingent of men, women, and children weeping in the church with remorse over the sin of
being unequally yoked.
Enter Shechaniah. He confesses
the sin to Ezra and then offers a solution.
Ezr 10:2 And Shechaniah
the son of Jehiel, one of the sons of Elam, spoke up and said to Ezra, "We
have trespassed against our God, and have taken pagan wives from the peoples of
the land; yet now there is hope in Israel in spite of this.
3 "Now therefore, let us make a covenant
with our God to put away all these wives and those who have been born to them,
according to the advice of my master and of those who tremble at the
commandment of our God; and let it be done according to the law.
My spirit is greatly troubled
by his proposal. First of all if a covenant with God is to be made, it is God
who initiates it, not man.
Secondly, it seems that
they have forgotten God hates divorce! Mal 2:16!
Not only that, but God
doesn’t want His church to make
widows and orphans, He wants us to take care of them!
Ah, but Shechaniah and
the others have an ace in the hole. We’ll call it the divorce papers. Divorce
became acceptable during the days of Moses. If the husband found his wife to be
“unclean or indecent, all he had to do was write a certificate of divorce, hand
it to her, and send her away.
The subject is brought up
in the NT when the Pharisees came to Jesus with one of those questions that
they used to try and trip Him up. His stance on the permanence of marriage
would not sit well with the people.
Mt 19:3 The Pharisees
also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, "Is it lawful for a man
to divorce his wife for just any reason?"
Open your eyes and see what has happened here.
Grounds for divorce moved from uncleanness and indecency to the modern day
equivalent of no fault divorce.
Jesus replies with a
question of His own! Have you not read your Bible?
And He answered and said
to them, "Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning 'made
them male and female,
5 "and said, 'For this reason a man shall
leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become
one flesh'?
6 "So then, they are no longer two but
one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate."
7 They said to Him, "Why then did Moses
command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?"
8 He said to them, "Moses, because of the
hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the
beginning it was not so.
9 "And I say to you, whoever divorces his
wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and
whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery."
10 His disciples said to Him, "If such is
the case of the man with his wife, it is better not to marry."
The disciples got it!
Marriage is meant to be permanent! No easy outs, God let them divorce in the
days of Moses because of their hard
heartedness! Just what every follower of Jesus wants to be known for…hard
hearted ness, a heart that resists
truth;
Jesus mentions one
exemption, that of sexual immorality. Joseph was going to play that card with
Mary, until God straightened him out!
By the way, the exemption
clause is only found in the Gospel of Matthew. You won’t find it in Mark or
Luke. I wonder why? Matthews Gospel reflects a deep understanding of Jewish
customs, traditions, and scriptures.
And the Jewish custom
concerning marriage was if the groom found out he had not married a virgin, he
could call off the wedding.
The people in Ezra’s day
did good by confessing their sin of marrying unbelievers, but they thought they
could pay for their sins by sending their wives and children away. You can’t
pay for your sins by committing another one.
Remember the woman caught
in the act of adultery?
What were Jesus; last
words to her? “Go and sin no more.”
Jesus had assured her
that He did not condemn her, and then warned her to not do it again.
I’m thinking that would’ve
worked a lot better in the days of Ezra, rather than divorcing them as an answer
to the sin.
It’s true really for all
sins. 1Jo 1:9 If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our
sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
We get a do over thanks
to the grace and mercy of God.
(NKJV)
I’m Duane Matz and that’s Today’s Living Word